Lolita: Cosplay, Genres, and Way of Life

Anyone here interested in Lolita by any chance? I am thinking of doing a lolita cosplay in the near future. I am particularly partial to Gothic, Guro, Steampunk,  Wa(traditional Japanese-influenced lolita). I do not really care for Ama nor Hime lolita, "sweet" nor "princess" lolita respectively, but that is entirely my own opinion :PI know a couple of websites to show one the way of Lolita as I learn more about the way of life :)That being said,  Please share your insights if you wish.